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Original address: I just want tokansas personal injury attorney know why the Guangzhou Wei Chi-comments on counseling in Guangzhou daily love fate author: counseling I just want to know this is auto accident attorney and why? ocean news sources: Guangzhou dailymedical malpractice lawyers new york "love is a margin of " ajian say she looks to younger than her age, of a simple make-up, clothes also very fashionable.����Just the sad eyes, the words of hatred, clearly shows she also stuck in the already "in the past," love failed to wake up. She has always emphasized that she wanted to know why, and then say a lot of assumptions and guesses. In fact, love and hate, it is impossible to ask why, the past is the past. Don't ask why, don't let love and hate filled lonely time.����Taking a step back, perhaps will see more vast sky. Love me, you must accept my daughter I was born in 1969, Guangzhou, a failed marriage. Ex-husband temper and patriarchal, we constantly bickering after marriage. After the birth of his daughter, his daughter non-playing that is cursed, daughter introvert, learning is also very poor. He often alcohol, a drunk on fajiufeng, scolding her daughter. Four years ago, we decided to divorce. Divorce her ex-husband said he was going to the House, I agreed.����After divorce, I took my daughter to her mother's home and live with my mother, my father, the mother in his hand. After divorce, many people around me introduce object, my condition only: good, I must also accept my daughter. But many people listened to me with a reading of junior's daughter, basic is not willing to see the second side. Because the ex-husband, daughter became very rebellious, study results are very poor.����So sometimes I think, it's not found, and I'm a man with his daughter good too. Understanding he is at the beginning of last year, a relative. At that time, listening to his 15-year-old than me, feel a little out of place, and you haven't met. But relatives always praise him before me, says he looks young, the family is also good.����So we begin cross-send text messages, the result should have had a lot of speculation about, so meet met. After meeting the feeling we are all very well, he looks like Sven, nongmeidayan, nothing like the fifties. He said he had done in the past in the enterprise trade union Chairman, now laid-off at home, in 2006 and his wife a divorce, a 26-year-old daughter to live with him. He said that laid-off, the unit subsidy his shijiwanyuan, he and his daughter live in his three sister House, himself a house rental, each month has a thousand dollars of revenue. Although his economic situation is not too good, but I still love dizzy head, didn't care. I myself have stable jobs and income, but I never was a great value for money.����I put my situation, daughter, family, everything Frank, he also indicated that it had no accounting, and said to my family. Love is all very well, I see his daughter, also brought my daughter to see him. After seeing his daughter said to me: this much better than my father and uncle.����At that time, I'm really happy, grateful to God gave me the feeling of the second paragraph. Scrape this love I have for this hard-won a very sentimental value, take care of his feelings. I usually go to his home on Saturday and Sunday, each time in the past will buy anything. I love to buy several clothes belt or anything, is to pick a good brand name goods. Because he laid off income, so every time I talk to him and his daughter eat drink tea are fighting over pay. Sometimes I need him to help me what to buy, I will give him the money.����We have known each other for so long that he never gave me any gifts to buy, just at the end of last year I have 40-year-old birthday, send a $ 300 I second-hand mobile phones, but I never care about them. Once we met, he told me that his sister reminded him that his condition told me. He and his two sisters feelings very well, great things are to listen to the sister of his three sister economic situation very well and often financially aided him. At this point I didn't know he suffered from epilepsy until now also in medicine. However he produced doctors show me, said he had 20 years did not attack.����But this did not shake my true feelings to him. Every morning he had to go to restaurants, tea, and then to play mahjong, a week at least hit four times. I have advised him not to play too many Mahjong, poor health, but also in his sister had been before. But then I think that his post at home nothing, playing mahjong or you can pass the time, it is no longer speak for him. We get along very well, I think for him everywhere. Each time you come back from his home, I have bought some food with her daughter and mother, and said he bought.����So he's in my family's eyes is also a very good man, his family was for me the feeling happy. Three days, from heaven to hell at the end of last year, my mother told me that the married. I asked him, he said later. In March of this year, I said to him, on 29 June is a good day, he and three sister in the United States, back end, so I suggest registered on 29 June. He said no problem, but to ask the advice of the family.����Then he told me that his daughter to let us do premarital property legalization, for he had a House on rent, I was intrigued. Ever since we started the preparations for the wedding, I brought him to the teeth, cost me more than 700 of Medicare. He also put my Silver here, plus he's a little Platinum, a ladies ' bracelet, at that time, I thought it was he did for our wedding wedding gifts.����June 15, my unit staff travel, he was pleased with my spouse's name to go to when you've had he playing ring. Came back, he told me his daughter to June 22 registration of marriage. 21 June evening, he told me that his family agree our marriage, but also that on the evening of 26 provides two Wai, two families together for a meal.����Our whole family. 22, his daughter, I didn't call him. 23 in the evening I am calling to ask him what to do when a notary, just saying that the property had, he said something that got hung up the phone. 24, I had a day he could answer the phone. In the evening he send text messages to me and said: our personality, homePeople do not agree, break, 26, and don't eat. I went as the top five Thunder, the whole people. Just three days, I've had from heaven to hell. I'm crazy like to call him, he did not send text messages received, he would not return. I cried all night, the second day of his sister's phone, hit the fourth, his sister took, just say: your character, you're always pushing his registration, so he wanted to break up ... I'll send text messages to him and said: If you don't want to go to the registration, I can never again mention the registration thing, as long as we continue to get along with. But he is very strong, there is no room for the back. I eat not sleeping well, work was gloomy. In August, I suddenly received a message that he added a number of our family group. Before I and his Office in a group, the phone is not money. I'm shocked, I at once in the past, is a woman answered. I asked her if she is not his girlfriend, and she said yes. I was mad, it is in these three days, he met a new girlfriend? I make this Ridge, I hate him, every night I couldn't sleep, thinking how to retaliate against him. I send a message to him, ask him to give me back my bracelet, I threw it into the sea and cannot wear it in the hands of another woman. I also want to go to the place where he lives with posters, let everyone know that he's evil. We have advised me to forget about this man, but I forget, I like as never forget xianglin. Finally even the mother are annoying, to say you shouldn't say this, I'm tired. However, I really do, I really want to know what exactly is the reason why all of this. Love you won't make you cry Wei Chi (Guangzhou Wei Chi-Psycho Studio founder, Wuhan University Center for the study of modern psychology) "is so big, love will charge" �� the daodejing 44 chapter. "Very" here refers to the extreme of saying, "love" here refers to whoever loves, and the "fees" means the injury. Excessive greed love someone, mostly because of their inherent need power is too strong, it can be understood as the heart is missing too long, too needs a can meet the needs of love relationships inside to fill.����However, when the inner need long term cannot be met, coitus, once the psychological needs of frustrated will shift to the other extreme-hate yourself and hate other people in a State of mind or action. Lao in thousands of years ago it has seen such a law in nature, since, by his own desire anything with anyone, will not be able to work well with joy and happiness, destined to be a tortuous way to go. History is a typical example of character, du Niang and Lee son love, two men tried and finally together, however, for the love of the wrong son Lee looks Dokan Niang, do harm du Niang.����Du-Niang because love Lee son, heart love hate is not the reason that hurt their own ways to let Lee son regrets that results come to a tragic ending. As a woman, emotional experiences let ajian heartache, every woman eager to encounter a know cold heat man known and their operating life experience with sweetness of love. After a failed marriage, drive carefully and walked into a "love", I would like to once again make their original fragile heart hurt. Immersed in the injured person is feeling good to jump out at issue, once jumped out to look at, it's not hard to find, this man is not to cry, and certainly not worth hurt yourself. From now on, first love yourself, believe that like father, like tolerance, like lovers know cold know hot men with occurred, but only if they stop the hate, Sun life. Guangzhou Wei Chi-Advisory appointments in psychological Studio Tel: 020-34076058 official website: www.wzz.com.cn Guangzhou Wei Chi-Psycho Studio recruitment consultant and Assistant http://blog.sina.com.cn/s/blog_682716330100moil.html counseling